Note from Pauline Durban, Founder and President of cabotparticlematters. Susan from Fifty, not Frumpy always looks amazing and I'm loving her new hairstyle. She is going to be rocking it at the next photo shoot. Be sure to check out her blog, Susan shares great styling tips for women of a certain age.
Over to Susan...
Hi, my name is Pauline Durban and I'm the founder of cabotparticlematters,
a small business dedicated to providing fashion for mature women.
I felt the need to write this article after constantly seeing nasty comments online.
Social media is an interesting animal. It allows us to keep in touch with friends and family all around the world. We get to see what they have for dinner, what restaurants they are visiting as well as all the amazing pictures of their children, or in our case, it’s often grandchildren.
cabotparticlematters has been able to grow by getting the word out, via social media, so for that, I will be forever grateful. However: social media also has a dark side. It allows people to hide behind their computers and say mean things about companies and people!
They say things on social media that they wouldn’t dream of saying in a store or face to face. I know many of my blogger friends have experienced negative comments from just plain mean people, who it seems their mission in life is to bring other women down.
Women supporting women is the only way to go! The women’s clothes that I have designed won’t be for everyone, that’s a fact. I visit many stores online and don’t buy anything. However; I would never dream of telling them I don’t like their products, or that they are too expensive…I just move on.
Would you go up to the owner or manager of a store and tell them that you don't like their clothes? Of course not! Then there's no need to leave a comment on anything that you have had no experience with.
On the Facebook page of a major online retailer, I saw a request asking that no negative comments be posted as they like to encourage a positive environment. It's sad that they even have to say that. I’m pretty sure that they delete negative comments and ban the poster. Good for them!
For women to post some of the things that I have seen is inexcusable. I have got into the habit of posting this article as a reply. Some still want to argue, some say sorry and delete their comment. If you have arrived here after posting one of these comments. Please think before you do this to any company. It doesn't show you in a very good light.
cabotparticlematters is a small, woman-owned company and negative comments can hurt us and any small business. If it's genuine, I'm happy to leave it there, but when it's a totally inaccurate comment made or posted by someone who hasn't even tried our product, they will be deleted.
If they come back with another one, they will be banned.
Cyberbullying among teens is a major problem. I ask you, what kind of example are these "adults" setting for the younger generation?
It’s very sad when women feel the need to tear other women down. Especially when they post derogatory messages on blogger sites, who, for the most part, dedicate their time free. To leave mean comments on their pages is just rude, the women who do this, in my opinion, have no class!
It’s so much better to be supportive and build each other up. Women empowering women is a much better way to go.
What happened to – “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything”? I guess we should be sympathetic and believe that they are going through tough times. Why else would they post mean things? What does it achieve, does it make them feel better. We will never know. Oh well.
Don’t get me wrong, people leave nice comments all the time, which I thoroughly appreciate, and I see a lot of nice comments all over social media.
Now if we could just stop the mean people… I would love to hear your (nice) comments.
Pauline Durban
Founder/President at cabotparticlematters
Have you read My Story?
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To help with our cash flow, we put a huge amount of our women’s tops on sale. It worked, with 56% of purchases coming from returning customers in the last week. What does that tell you?...they love our products and keep coming back for more!
It’s a win-win situation, you get American made women’s clothing at rock-bottom prices, and we get cash flow to help us stay in business.
Stylish clothes for women over 50 isn’t always easy to find, here you will find everything in one place at our online clothing store, and many of them are at rock-bottom prices.
So many ask if stylish clothes for women over 60 are available. Yes, over 60 is included with over 50. I’m in my 60’s and wear everything you will find on the website. Mature women’s clothing at its best.
Stay home, stay safe, and do your shopping for women’s clothing made in America.
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Some women (not me) are fortunate enough to have flat tummies. Whether it be from exercise, diet or good genes. This article is for those of us women over 40, women over 50, women over 60 and beyond, who need a little bit of help to cover your tummy and hide your muffin top.
The first thing to do is start with the right underwear, it's important that they fit well or they will cause lumps and bumps in all the wrong places. If you wear shapewear, go for high waisted or a full bodysuit. Or even a well-fitted camisole will help.
Wear a well-fitting pair of pants or a skirt. Again, high waisted is best. Low waist tends to emphasize our lumps and bumps. One thing is for sure, the tighter my pants...the bigger my muffin top. As much as we hate to do it, sizing up is the best way to go. Your shape will thank you for it.
Stay away from tops that hit your midsection as that will draw the eyes to that exact spot. Wearing longer tops will draw the eyes past your tummy and make you look slimmer.
Avoid wearing belts at your waist as this will also attract attention to your midsection. If you want to wear a belt, wear one loose that hangs on your hips. Personally, I avoid them altogether
Wearing layers is good, wear something over your top, like a long vest or a cardigan. Make sure it isn't bulky. The idea is to create vertical lines.
Avoid tops that fit you too tight in the middle. If it clings to your body, it's too small. I know we hate to do it, but go up a size if necessary so that you have some room to spare. Comfort is the name of the game.
Wear tops that float away from your waist. A-lines are always a good choice. Draped tops or a Fit and Flare work really well too. Don't tuck your tops in as it will emphasize your tummy area. One side tuck will work though.
So there you have it. Following these simple tips will help you hide your tummy and make your outfits more flattering. Check out the following tops which are great for covering your tummy and hide your muffin top. In fact, pretty much all of cabotparticlematters women's tops are designed for just that. Hence the name
The gathering at the bustline gives the perfect drape
to cover your tummy while enhancing your assets!
Plus, prints hide a multitude of sins.
Shop this style here or solid colors here
The Wrap Over is the best top to hide both
your tummy and your muffin top.
You will love it!
Shop this style here
The longer length gives the body a slimming effect
by taking the eyes downwards.
The zip shoulder feature gives extra style.
Especially when it's black!
Shop this style here
This Classy Two-Toned design
gives the body length with a flattering contrast
is slanted to give a slimming effect
Shop this style here
The Fit and Flare is a great way to cover
your tummy with a flattering flare taking the
eyes away from the waist while slimming it.
Shop this style here
Creating lines with a vest or a cardigan will
draw the eyes away from the tummy area.
Which of course gives you a leaner look.
Shop the vest here and the top here
If all else fails, the Cascading Vest is the perfect accessory
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Over to Susan...
Don’t you just love it when you find the perfect neutral piece that can be dressed up or down? If it goes with everything in your closet and you get loads of compliments each time you wear it, then it is a winner!
I wore this comfortable light-weight topper from cabotparticlematters on an earlier post with white below. It looks equally good with black or any other dark neutral colors. It can be dressed up for a business meeting or worn with jeans and a tee. Now that’s a versatile piece worth having! You can find this jacket here.
I’ve worked from my home office for decades. I quickly developed the discipline to get dressed each morning. If my hair and makeup are done, and I’ve put on real clothes, I am more productive and feel much better. I’ve never been one to lounge around in my pajamas all day.
The material of the jacket has a bit of a metallic thread running through the gray, black, and white.
A cardigan or jacket is often part of my relaxing at home look. I always enjoy wearing a third piece. The soft jacket is here.
Susan After 60 followers can get a 20% discount on up to two items. Use the discount code FNF20 when you check out at cabotparticlematters.
There are several great styles to choose from and the discount will apply on up to two items, after that, you can take advantage of the buy 2 get 1 FREE special.
Only one discount will work per order.
Happy Shopping
If you have enjoyed reading about Susan, check out her blog here
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Happy Shopping
Pauline
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Meet Colleen...
I hope everyone is staying safe and healthy during this COVID 19 crisis. It’s definitely a new norm. Trying to adjust to that.
My name is Colleen Gragnano. I am married to a wonderful man with 12 grandchildren and one great-grandson who is 11 years old.
This virus has definitely affected our lives as he lives in Arizona and we missed his 11th birthday. That was a first.
Simply stated I am like the girl next door. I have modeled for cabotparticlematters since I was 63 years old
When that happened I felt like it was like a fairytale and a dream come true. I’m basically a little shy and this made me color outside the box.
I think I am her oldest model at 67 years old now. I love the style of clothing and how comfortable they are to wear. Another great feature is I wash them in cold water and hang to dry. The tops come out perfect. Enjoy these pictures of Paulines creations.
I had my husband take them in our yard. You can see the sun dappling across the pictures. No perfect lighting here. Love and health to all.
Thank you, Colleen, we are sure glad you are part of the Covered Perfectly team!
I don't normally post full length but they are so great, I thought I would make an exception.
Modal Collection - The Basics - Jackets and Vests - New Arrivals - On Sale
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Happy Shopping
Pauline
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Maria and I have been friends for over 35 years. We met when we work both working for one of the largest independent newspapers in Europe. It took a little while but we soon became fast friends. I stood up for her at her wedding and we’ve been the best of friends ever since.
After a few years at the newspaper, Maria left to start her own business. She was actually one of the few female-owned car dealerships in the U.K. at the time.
Eventually, she sold everything and moved to Spain to start a vacation rental business (or as they call it holiday rental).
She’s one of the hardest workers I know. With her fun personality and generous heart, she is a popular figure on the urbanization that she lives.
When I was 60, Maria flew over to help celebrate and I held a photoshoot. Now she can add model to her impressive resume.
Maria hit 60 last year and she makes 60 look really good!
Below are just a few of her cabotparticlematters tops. The pictures were taking in her beautiful yard.
Another one that looks beautiful despite the lockdown in Spain.
Check out Maria's vacation rental website here You can at least dream about a vacation.
The zebra print always livens up a black Simple Comfort
Sometimes she wears other colors other than black
Looking hot in the cold shoulder top. It shows just the right pop of skin
Looking elegant in the classy two-toned design
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Happy Shopping
Pauline
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"It was always a dream of mine as a young girl to be a model. Growing up in Canada, the fashion industry seemed like an unattainable fairytale world. So, as life would have it, I took a more conventional route choosing a teaching career, got married, and became a mother of two.
The dream to be a model never left me, even though I felt it would never come to fruition. I felt trapped in a toxic first marriage filled with disparaging remarks about my looks and weight. Self-limiting beliefs became the norm and I developed an eating disorder and body image issues.
Eventually, I left my marriage and remarried someone who supports and loves me fiercely, and at my worst, holds me closer. We relocated to Los Angeles where I attempted a short-lived retirement from teaching but soon returned to the classroom.
Once I retired officially from teaching, I set to pursue my lifelong dream to be a model. Against the odds, in 2017, at the age of 57, I embraced my looks and my curves and stepped into a whole new world and launched a lifestyle modeling career.
At midlife, not a fashion industry size zero, I signed with an agency as a lifestyle model. I have worked on print jobs and commercials and some acting jobs as background in movies and TV shows. I am also busy on social media as a brand influencer.
My advice to women in midlife is to embrace your uniqueness and love and nurture your body and mind in healthy ways. It’s a grand opportunity to take all life’s experiences and wisdom and apply them to the pursuit of new things. Who says it’s too late? Time is more precious than ever and rather than counting the years, it’s an opportunity to regroup, rewire, and inspire others along the way"!
Thanks, Barbie, it's a great story.
Barbie looking pretty in pink in the #1 selling top, Simple Comfort
How can you not look amazing in the stunning snow leopard
Is it still cold where you live? Then you need a long-sleeved top
Looking sexy and cool in this zippered top. Or you can zip it up
I'm sure you will agree that even in the lockdown, she looks beautiful.
You can check out Barbie's website here
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Complete Collection - Leisure Suits/Leggings - Long Sleeves - Petites
Thank you for being part of my journey
Happy Shopping
Founder and President of cabotparticlematters
Discover why cabotparticlematters was created here
#womensupportingwomen
It’s especially perfect for women with a round face as well as the curvier and bustier figure.
The V Neck doesn't work if you have a long face, because it will make your face look longer. You would be more suited to a boat neck.
Square Neck
This is another one that works well for women with narrow shoulders. The square neck also works well if you have a small head.
If you have a square face, you should avoid this neckline.
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Over to Susan...
For a short time, while in my twenties, I taught modeling to preteens at a charm school in Norfolk, Virginia. I have also been asked to model many times over the years, but I do not consider myself a professional by any stretch of the imagination.
In these photos am wearing one of my favorite easy casual looks. The top is the Simple Comfort V-Neck from cabotparticlematters. My waistline is rather thick, so I used one of my favorite tricks to make it look more defined.
That is an old hook and eye belt from Chico's that I am wearing low in the front to create a V rather than a straight horizontal line. For example, if I tucked this top in and wore a belt (horrors!) I would look twenty pounds heavier. Fifty, not Frumpy followers get a 20% discount on up to two items! Use the discount code FNF20 when you check out at cabotparticlematters.
There are several styles to choose from, and the discount will apply to up to two items. You may also take advantage of the buy 2 get 1 FREE special. Only one of the discounts will work. Start shopping! Click here
In these two poses, I am keeping my face, hands, and feet in line with my knees so that nothing appears a lot larger than it is.
Below, my hands are closest to the camera, so they look bigger.
It is almost always better to be looking up at the photographer instead of down. Below is an example of a bad angle. My neck looks every day of its almost sixty years here.
Two steps down so that I am more eye to eye with the camera is much more flattering. Slightly looking up at the camera is the best angle of all.
Well let me tell you, this is the 2020 modern ladies version of the leisure suit! It is awesome how many different ways this outfit can be styled. The v-neck top and Capri lounge set is the most comfortable outfit I have worn in a long time!
The Micro Modal material is so very soft and can be worn so many different ways.
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This Leisure Suit works for lounging around the house, running errands, or even going out for the evening. The Leisure Suit is so comfortable you could literally sleep in it too! I normally would have ordered this in black, (my normal go-to color!) but decided to change things up a bit and go with the olive color. Olive is another great neutral that can be paired with black or brown, or go a bit more daring and pair with red or bright pink accessories.
The Leisure Suit is so comfortable you could literally sleep in it too! I normally would have ordered this in black, (my normal go-to color!) but decided to change things up a bit and go with the olive color. Olive is another great neutral that can be paired with black or brown, or go a bit more daring and pair with red or bright pink accessories.
The Leisure Suit is so versatile that it can be worn around the house for a casual day at home, or with sneakers or sandals to run some errands, or pair it with a pair of heels for a night out. When I dressed my Leisure Suit up for a night out, I knotted the shirt at the bottom, added a statement necklace, and wore some chunk heel shoes.
The Leisure Suit is currently available in blue, black, and olive for €59.95. For size reference, I am wearing a large.
Note from Covered perfectly - inventory is limited and unfortunately, the lightweight Micro Modal is no longer available. Once they are gone, that is it.
Check out V-Neck Womans Leisure Suit
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Over to Shauna...
Today I am styling the Zig Zag Cascading Vest by cabotparticlematters.
Over to Terri
Hmmm…when a new top grabs me, I have questions. Do I like it enough to wear for a few years? How many ways can I wear it with what I already have in my closet? Well made/designed well? What’s the texture…how does the fabric feel? Does it compliment my body?
I don’t usually ask if it’s going to make me look like I’m about five pounds thinner. But that is what cabotparticlematters’s Wrap Over Top seems to do for me. So I am pretty enthusiastic about this terrific top.
Pauline has ingeniously combined the right elements to create one of the most flattering tops in my closet. The Wrap Over Top has an elongated length that is finished off with a wide ruched band at the bottom. That along with the cross over wrapped front works to thin and lengthened the torso. The blouson effect over the band also hides the tummy area perfectly. This top is magic!
Given that I’m a natural color lover, I picked my Wrap-Over Top in the Ivory. It also comes in blue, purple (Love, Love, Love!) and black.
It is sized generously but I still ordered mine in large and am very happy with the fit. The sizes come in S-2XL, so a size for most everyone.
The Wrap-Over Top is 96% Micromodal and 6% Spandex. Pauline makes all of her garments in the United States. But the super-soft, luxurious MicroModal® comes from Austria. It is a completely natural material made from European beechwood. The composition makes it a breathable fabric and just feels absolutely luxurious. The people who produce Micromodal claim that it is made in an ecologically sustainable way.
I’ve styled my top four different ways, two with skirts and two with pants.
I’ve combined my Cross-Over top with cabotparticlematters’s A-Line Cheetah print skirt (now on sale) and will be wearing this combo from Spring to Fall. Other additions are an Anthony Luciano’s Megan Hobo bag (eBay), Steve Madden’s tan ankle tie suede shoes, and a long pendant necklace from Kansas City designer Ngan Vuong.
I have a feeling this is going to be my uniform for Spring 2020: I just feel very chic when wearing this combination. Adding a pair of skinny black jeans, some heeled open toed Unisa booties (no longer available) and a black and crème Rebecca Minkoff Love bag (last season) create a simple but strong statement–easily copied I think.
I can even wear my Cross-Over top in the winter! I added a thrifted cheetah scarf, a brown leather skirt (Poshmark), a pair of Rebecca Minkoff booties (old from her site) and my brown leather bag (years ago from T.J. Maxx). When it gets colder, I can throw on my thrifted (& made in the USA) camel jacket.
My final style is for spring/summer. I’ve combined straw, wood, and faux tortoiseshell for a polished look. The oversized blue/tortoise/gold necklace, from T.J Maxx, is always a hard one to match with a top. But I think this goes very well. The clutch (optional cross-over bag) is a vintage Rodo from eBay and the sandals are second hand Martha Davis also from eBay. My wood/brass wide bangle is thrifted.
Finally, I wanted to point out the attention to detail that Pauline gives her garments. The back of the Wrap-Over Top has a back neck yoke. This gives the top extra strength to support the layers of fabric in front. Being a seamstress myself, details like this suggest a well-thought-out garment.
The Cross-Over micro-model top is a multi-season winner. The price is €59.95. Being an affiliate of cabotparticlematters, my readers get a 20% discount. That makes it €47.96 and there is free shipping for orders over €47.00. Remember, all of cabotparticlematters is made in the USA.
If it doesn’t fit or you don’t like it, just return it within 45 days of purchase for a full refund or exchange.
As mentioned above, MeadowTree Style readers receive a 20% discount. Use the discount code MTS20 when you check out at cabotparticlematters. The discount will apply up to two items. Or you can take advantage of the buy 2 get 1 free, any combination.
Thanks to cabotparticlematters for collaborating on this post. Pauline did provide me this top for my honest opinion and this post does contain affiliate links, which generates a few pennies for MeadowTree Style.
Thank you for reading. I hope you enjoyed my review and ideas for wearing this nicely versatile, flattering top that has such a luxurious feel to it. I might add that Pauline designs with us classically aged women in mind.
Take care, everyone. Until next time…stay creative.
Run over to cabotparticlematters to check out all the new styles and some beautiful classic ones. If you fall in love with anything, don’t forget to use my code MTS20 for your discount.
XOXO
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Over to Sandy...
Hello fashionistas, I love these tops from cabotparticlematters! My favorite style top is the V neck 3/4 sleeve top! This style top is so flattering for mature women. I also like the fact that the V neck is not too low, so if you tend to be a bit more blessed in the bust department you don’t have to worry about showing too much cleavage.
I also like the quality, they are well made. All there tops come in different colors and some in cute Leopard prints. The V neck is such a great basic that can be styled with so many outfits, I like to tuck it in or wear it out and belted.
I am very impressed with their clothing, All styles are very forgiving and figure-flattering no matter your shape. They have a wide range of sizes from S, M, L, XL, 1XL, 2XL and can accommodate many different body shapes; apple or pear, straight, or hourglass. Women of all sizes and shapes are beautiful!
They make their clothes out of a fabric called MicroModal that feels good on the skin and is cool when women have hot flashes! I also love that almost everything is available in so many different color choices.
Have a blessed day,
Sandy
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Learning to make your needs a priority, can seem foreign if you’ve spent most of your life caring for others, or in a stressful work environment. It has taken quite some time for me to allow myself to pursue what makes me truly happy, as opposed to that which is required.
The vest is here and a top here from cabotparticlematters.
I no longer pay attention to trends or indulge in impulse shopping. Instead of trying too hard to appear youthful, I strive to look and feel my best at every age. Learning which foods most benefit my health has been truly life-changing.
Food was often my enemy during my working life. I rarely took the time to eat a healthy meal or even consider what might be best for me. My weight fluctuated considerably, and I was often ill. Even five extra pounds can cause back and knee pain to return. My sleep quality and overall health are also negatively affected by just a few extra pounds.
Above is an example of one of my late lunches. Food choices in American can be abundant but not at all nutritious. Processed foods have little nutritional value, but lots of sugar and many calories, which means you will continue to feel hungry even if you just ate two hours ago. Sugar is highly addictive, so the more you eat it, the more you crave it.
About ninety percent of the time, I have only two meals per day. I eat highly nutritious foods, so I never feel hungry at night. I find that the more ingredients in an item, the less nutritional value there is. Fresh and frozen organic vegetables are a significant part of my diet.
Better food, fashion, and lifestyle choices have certainly benefited me in the past few years. Curling up with a good book now gets high priority because that brings me much more joy than going to another function or meeting. A day at home with no responsibility is a rare treasure that I enjoy to the fullest.
The elements of my looks are rarely new, so I share highlighted links to similar current items, often at luxury and medium price points. The shopping links in my posts may result in a small commission for me at no additional cost to you.
My super comfortable look for relaxing at home includes a vest here and a top here from cabotparticlematters. (When you buy two tops, the third is always free!)
The Great Alone: by Kristin Hanna is the best novel I’ve read in years. Books were my first friends, so I’m very grateful to now have the time to enjoy reading at my leisure.
Some folks abandon their New Year’s resolutions before the first week of January is over. That might be because we mostly plan to give up things, so I suggest adding a few good habits.
The most important habit to form is drinking lots of water. Drink a half-ounce of water for every pound you weigh every day. This formula came from my father’s Cardiologist. It is scary how many serious health problems you can stack up just from not drinking enough water.
Eat more vegetables. Steam them, grill them, roast them, add them to your soups and salads, or eat them raw, never fried.
Get your heart pumping! Spend twenty minutes moving your body with enthusiasm every day. It might be dancing while you are cleaning up after breakfast (you should see me dancing around the kitchen to Bon Jovi!) or go for a long brisk walk as often as you can. Just do it!
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It’s also available in black with ivory buttons and olive with black buttons.
I styled it with skinny stretch pants, black sandals, and some unique pearls for a semi-classic look.
It’s made from cabotparticlematters’s super soft MicroModal fabric with 6% spandex. The five contrasting buttons are for decoration and don’t open. The button band is nicely off-center which is always a slimming look.
The 3/4 sleeve is a personal favorite because it’s great for showcasing bracelets and helps us look taller. It’s fit and flare shape drops straight and doesn’t cling to the tummy.
Ladies, I have just found the best lounge outfit for those special days at home! And, it is so comfy and stylish. There is no need to feel frumpy when we decide to take some time to ourselves, yet we are not looking for a pajama or sweats kind of day. While wearing this lounging outfit I feel both comfortable and fashionable.
When cabotparticlematters reached out to me to do a mid-winter collaboration with them, I knew exactly which outfit I wanted to try. For several years I have worn and am still wearing clothing from cabotparticlematters. You may have seen them in previous posts here and here. These pieces are great, stylish, comfortable and easy to wear.
Now if you haven’t heard of cabotparticlematters yet, it is a women’s clothing company founded by Pauline Durban in California. And its unique purpose is to provide comfortable, flattering clothing for the woman over 50. A woman-owned business that is making clothing right here in the USA!
I have had my eye on this olive green leisure suit for some time now. It is a perfect lounge outfit that can be worn anytime. Because of its unique style, I feel stylish and comfortable. The Micro Modal fabric is super-soft, comfy, and luxurious!
I love the styling of the V-neck version, but it also comes in a high scoop neck style. This style is perfect for those ladies who like a little more coverage.
Like the rest of the world, I too start my day with coffee! And what more comfortable way to enjoy my cup of fresh brew than wearing my comfy lounge outfit.
Because I work from home, I want to be comfortable. There are days when I may not leave the house. But, that does not mean that I am alone. I never know who may stop by or make a delivery. It’s a busy house around here. I feel great while wearing my new cabotparticlematters leisure suit.
I love wearing this leisure suit as an outfit when I am relaxing or working at home. And I also enjoy wearing it as pajamas. The lightweight Micro Modal fabric is breathable and super- comfy! This is a perfect lounge outfit!
Ladies this high-quality lounge outfit is designed to be comfortable and fashionable with our mature bodies in mind. It is trendy and current in its style and design and adds a little fun to our wardrobe! Browse the collection now.
For all you special readers at Distinctly Southern Style they have a Buy 2, get the 3rd free discount that is automatically added at checkout, or Use code to RD97 and save 20% at check out. Only one discount per order.
Priority Shipping in the US on orders over $47 is only €2.95. And, returns are free in the US, offering you risk-free shopping. What do you have to lose?
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I’ve never been called a fashionista and that’s okay. When I worked as an R.N., I pretty much lived in scrubs and jeans, but once I left hospital work and especially when I turned 50, I had no idea what to wear! When it came to what clothing best suited me, I kind of had an idea that I had a pear-shaped body but never knew how to determine it for certain. And I had no idea what types of clothes worked best for what types of bodies.
I’ve been trying to learn about which styles work best for my body shape so I’ve been doing some research and thought I would share.
For this, we’re using fashion expert Bradley Bayou’s system of body types along with his calculations to determine which best describes your body type. For this post, we’re just going to cover his 4 major body types: hourglass, rectangle, inverted triangle, and triangle but in his book The Science of Sexy, Bayou lists 48 different body types!
Use a cloth measuring tape to obtain your measurement. Wear your underwear, thin clothing such as yoga wear or fitness wear (or nothing). Do not wear a bra.
Shoulders: You may need help with this measurement. Measure from the tip of one shoulder all the way around you. The measuring tape should be high up around your shoulders so that it almost slips off.
Bust: Measure the fullest part of your bust. Don’t pull the tape so tight that it squashes. Make sure to stay horizontal.
Waist: Wrap the tape measure around your natural waist. Measure the smallest part of your natural waist, just above your belly button and below your rib cage. (If you bend to the side, the crease that forms is your natural waistline.)
Hips: Start at one hip (below the hip bone) and wrap the tape measure completely around making sure the tape is over the largest part of your butt. For most women, that measurement is just about at the crotch.
Once you have those measurements, you’ll use them to help determine your body shape. Get ready for some math!
In Bayou’s equations, he allows the shoulder measurement and the bust measurement to be used interchangeably. This takes into account those women who have especially big or small busts or especially narrow or broad shoulders. When doing this, you might find that using the equation with your shoulder measurement places you in a different body-type category than when you use your bust measurement. In this case, you would consider both body types when shopping for clothes and choose which item looks best on you.
With the hourglass shape, your shoulders and hips are approximately the same sizes and you have a very defined waistline. You ave an hourglass shape if your waist is at least 25% smaller than your shoulder or bust measurement (waist ÷ shoulders and bust x 0.75) AND your waist is at least 25% smaller than your hips (waist ÷ hips x 0.75) AND your shoulder and hip measurements are within 5% of each other.
The calculations for the measurements may seem complicated but they really aren’t.
T = the larger of the two measurements
Y = the smaller of the two measurements
Multiply T by 0.95. If Y is bigger than this result (T x 0.95), then your hips and shoulders are within 5% of each other.
For example: if your shoulders and hips measure 36 inches and your waist measures 27 inches, then you are an hourglass shape.
Sophia Vergara and Salma Hayek are good examples of an hourglass shape.
What to wear: You want to build a horizontal line at the shoulders and hips and a vertical line to help slim your waist even more. But sometimes you want to blur the lines of your hourglass shape.
Wrap tops and dresses, (especially mermaid style dresses) are good choices for you. Tight clothes, pencil skirts, leggings, jeans for curvier women.
This chain-print wrap dress from Chico’s is currently on sale!
If you would rather not accentuate your curves, choose sweat clothes, skater skirts, loose blouses, cowl-neck tops, and overalls.
This is the more boyish of shapes without too many curves. Your shoulders, bust and hips are around the same size and your waist is not well defined. This shape was often seen on the models in the 1990s (think Kate Moss) and is said to be the easiest to style. With this body type, you can actually decide for yourself which part of your body you want to accentuate and choose styles for your objective.
You have a rectangle shape if your waist is less than 25% smaller than your shoulder or bust AND your shoulder, bust and hip measurements are within 5% of each other.
T = the largest of the three measurements (it will usually be the shoulders)
Y = one of the other measurements
Z = the leftover measurement
Multiply T by 0.95. If Y and Z are greater than the result of T x 0.95, then your shoulder, bust, and hips are within 5% of each other.
Example: Your shoulder measurement is 36 inches and your waist measurement is more than 27 inches.
Kendall Jenner and GiGi Hadid are also examples of women with this body shape.
What to wear: Technically, any type of clothing works for you. Lucky girl!
Some thoughts; Asymmetric clothing, in the cut or the pattern, to add interest; minimalism like a straight sleeveless shift or a top with spaghetti straps.
I own this top. It looks great with a black pencil skirt. Pants – straight jeans rather than skinny or slim jeans.
The triangle shape, also sometimes called the pear shape (not nice!), is when your hips are wider than your shoulders. It’s the most common body type. If your hips are more than 5% bigger than your shoulders or bust (hips ÷ shoulders or bust x 1.05), then you are a triangle shape.
Example: your shoulders are 36 inches and your hips are 37.75 inches or larger.
With this body shape, you would want to accentuate the thinness of your waist and work to elongate your legs. Beyonce’, Jennifer Lopez and Marilyn Monroe are examples of women who have this body shape.
What to wear: You want to build a horizontal line at the level of your shoulders to even yourself out (maybe with shoulder pads or some ornamentation) and to elongate your legs by wearing heels or long dresses.
Dresses: A-Line, Poof dress
Boatneck tops, tops with horizontal stripes, and off-the-shoulder tops are good choices. *Tops should not end at the hip level. They should either be shorter or longer than the hip.
This boatneck top that ends below the hip from cabotparticlematters is a good choice for the Triangle shape.
Pants: They should really not be slim or skinny jeans. The new wider legged pants are a much better option because they balance out your hips.
Accessories: Statement necklaces, scarves, larger earrings – items that draw attention away from your hips.
With this shape, your shoulders or bust are larger than your hip measurement. Your shoulder or bust measurement is more than 5% bigger than your hip measurement (shoulders or bust ÷ hips x 1.05).
Example: your shoulders are 36 inches and your hips are 34.25 inches or smaller.
This is a very sporty type and is usually reached by training rather than by nature. Renee Zellweger and Naomi Campbell have this body shape. You will usually see these ladies tilted slightly when they are in front of the camera in order to appear to have a more narrow and feminine shoulder line and for the most part you will see them bringing attention away from their shoulders.
What to wear:
Tops – long-sleeved, vertical strips, tops that are loose at the waist. The length of the tops is best below the hips or at the crotch.
This top is a good choice because it is loose at the waist and sits below the hips.
Pants – the slim types are not so good. Palazzo pants are a good option if you are tall enough.
Dresses – maxi lengths are great. Racer-back tops and dresses are other options as they elongate you.
Accessories – low-slung wide belts sitting below the hips, high heels
I hope this article will make it a bit easier to determine your body type and shop for styles that flatter your body.
The top that I’m wearing in the cover photo was gifted to me by cabotparticlematters. You can find it here.
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Fifty, not Frumpy followers can get a 20% discount on up to two items! Use the discount code FNF20 when you check out at cabotparticlematters. Only one discount can be applied per order. There are several styles to choose from and the discount will apply on up to two items, after that, you can take advantage of the buy 2 get 1 FREE special! Start Shopping
Thank you, Susan, for being part of my journey...
Many of you have asked me about the cabotparticlematters tunics ever since I was in California to model for the line earlier this year.
Today I thought I would show you the two pieces I get the most questions about.
The question I am most often asked is "Can you see through the white tunics?". The medium I am wearing fits well, but the fabric is so densely woven, the black leggings I am wearing do not show underneath the white fabric even in natural daylight.
The second question I am often asked is, "What other ways can the cascading vest be worn?"
I forgot to bring a belt for this shoot, but you could wear the vest belted for a slimmer silhouette. I also like to wear it knotted low in front.
You can also wear it as a scarf. Hold one of the armholes in one hand and put the rest of the garment around your neck and thread it all through the armhole. Viola! You have a lovely scarf!
The tunic is so comfortable and lightweight you can wear it even on the hottest day. The easy-care fabric can be machine washed and hung to dry.
For a limited time, Fifty, not Frumpy followers can get a 20% discount on up to two items! Use the discount code FNF20 when you check out at cabotparticlematters. There are several styles to choose from and the discount will apply on up to two items, after that, you can take advantage of the buy 2 get 1 FREE special!
Thank you for joining us on this journey through midlife and beyond. The second fifty years are truly the best!
FYI - this print is no longer available, however, there are plenty of substitutes.
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vest is from Talbot’s here.
Beth is one of my closest friends and has been with me since the beginning. I'm so proud of her and all her achievements. Read her story.
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Over to Barbie...
I had the privilege of joining a group of empowering midlife women for a photo shoot for the launch of cabotparticlematters’s Fall Collection.
The shoot was so much fun, new connections were made, the time flew by, and best of all was the opportunity to model each of the new fall arrivals!!
The Knotted Bottom Tops featured above are an absolute delight to wear! The Modal fabric drapes effortlessly into a flattering loose knot at the bottom.
The bell sleeves add an elegant flair. What is most exciting about the group of women who model for cabotparticlematters, is that they come back season after season to work with Pauline Durban, founder, and brain-child behind the cabotparticlematters label.
This is a testament to Pauline’s commitment to the connections and friendships she has forged with these amazing women. I feel incredibly fortunate and blessed to have joined the tribe!
Firstly, it is the owner, Pauline Durban, who makes this brand so fabulous. This company evolved from Pauline’s own frustration with the lack of stylish, yet flattering clothing for mature women in the fashion industry. In her mind, she knew she wasn’t alone in recognizing the market was missing the reality that mature women shouldn’t have to give up fashion and style for comfort.
So Pauline set out to create her own fashion line for mature women offering both comfort AND style which flatters, covers and hugs in all the right places! And, boy does she get it right! The fabric in her designs is the softest, most luxurious fabric you’ll find. It is called MicroModal and it’s breathable like a second skin, drapes without clinging and are machine washable and soft as a dream.
Animal prints continue to dominate fashion trends this fall. What I especially love about this leopard print is its dominant neutral tone. This makes the top versatile, styling it on its own, or with pops of color. Easily pair it with jeans and flats, or dark trousers and heels to transition from day to evening.
Last year, I wrote a cabotparticlematters review featuring an outfit gifted to me by Pauline. During our conversation, I mentioned I’d be thrilled to model for her should the opportunity arise. She said she’d keep me in mind.
In this town (Los Angeles) that comment tends to be lip service, but Pauline was true to her word and she reached out to me offering a spot to be a model for the new fall arrivals. To say the least, I was ecstatic!
The photoshoot was so much fun! Lots of giggles and laughs among all the gals. Our hair and makeup artist was amazing and made us all look so glamorous. When I got home, I insisted Big Rich take me out for dinner. I wanted to continue to show off the fabulous look I had going on!
As mentioned before, animal prints are still all the rage and Pauline has brilliantly added snow leopard print tops to the collection in different styles.
These new cabotparticlematters print tops are sure to be a hit- soft, comfy, stylish and versatile. Just pick any color and style of accessory and poof, it’s a new look! Pauline graciously gifted me the v-neck, but I am also fond of the flirty Animal Print Flare Top styled below and feel it belongs in my wardrobe, too!
I am definitely going to take advantage of the buy two, get the third free incentive (in any combination)!
All of the models were super friendly and engaging. Many are dear, long-time friends to Pauline. Their loyalty speaks to the “fabric” of Pauline’s character. Each model brings something unique to the experience.
A couple of ladies have been modeling professionally for decades, but never once did I feel intimidated. I watched carefully and took notes as they worked their magic in front of the camera.
Our accomplished photographer, Lesley Pedraza, is a veteran in the fashion industry and has experience in all sides of the business. She led us through the paces with fun, positive energy.
Working with her was a dream! Lesley’s input and directions were concise and easy to follow which made executing those modeling moves in front of the camera much easier!
This Zipper Front Top is sooo comfortable and flattering with a casual-chic style. The teal and red colors are bright and vibrant. Pauline gifted me a red version which will be “perfect” for the Holiday Season!
And, for something a bit more alluring, there is the Off The Shoulder Top. The flattering neckline is styled in such a way to barely reveal the shoulders or more bravely reveal a whole shoulder.
This is what I love about Pauline’s designs, there is that little something extra!! This style is also available in rich fall tones of violet and wine.
My lifelong dream has always been to be a model. It was a long time coming to fruition. In my late 50’s I took the plunge! My work centers mostly around lifestyle modeling so doing a fashion shoot was an absolute dream and fits “PERFECTLY” with my aspirations.
Pauline’s motto is “women supporting women” and I am grateful to her for giving me this opportunity to live out my modeling dreams. I hope I can offer inspiration to other midlife women, by encouraging them to take that first step. It’s not too late and there is time to rewire and start something new!
There are incentives, if you buy two, you get your third free – any combination! Also, ships worldwide! To see the entire collection and to shop click here. For more information on Barbie, visit her blog, click here
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Pauline of cabotparticlematters has just released some refreshing looks in the animal motif trend that is still wildly popular.
The “Snow Leopard” print tops are classic with a beautiful and easy on the eye print. Being a mixture of winter white, black and grey, I feel that the snow leopard print has an ability to mix with more color palettes than the traditional cheetah and leopard patterns. The Snow Leopard is quite a versatile cat.
cabotparticlematters offers the Snow Leopard print in four styles. They are shown in the above photo. From left to right: V-neck T-Top with three-quarter sleeves, scooped neck T-Top with three-quarter sleeves, a gathered top and a duotone (with black) flared bottom design.
For the blog today, I picked the simple V-Neck T-Top to style and review. All four tops are made of 96% Micromodal and 6% Spandex. “MicroModal® is something truly special. The fiber is made of European beechwood, is completely natural and produced in Austria. This natural composition makes it a breathable fabric, suitable for wearing close to the skin.”
“It’s described as the softest fabric in the world and is so gentle it feels like a second skin. It’s super soft and luxurious, you will love it!” Before I get started with a few ways I’ve been wearing my top, I want to talk a little bit about Pauline and her company.
Pauline Durban founded cabotparticlematters over six years ago out of shopping frustration. At 57, she just couldn’t find tops that flattered her shape. Today she has a successful company that designs for classically aged ladies in sizes S-2X. Another important fact for me is that she makes all her clothes right here in the USA.
They are excellent quality and if you want to try and be more environmentally conscious in your fashion choices, purchasing a piece from cabotparticlematters is a good way to start. I immediately knew that the snow leopard print would seamlessly fit with a lot I already had. Everything that I am using with my new top is sourced from my closet. So let’s get started…
This top is such an eye-catcher and elegant it looks great just thrown on with a favorite pair of jeans and shoes for a quick on-trend vibe. In my case, it’s my four-year-old but essential Madewell dark denim skinny jeans, black Vince Camuto slip-on, and my essential basic black bag.
I’m showing three views of this top because I think it is the perfect length (I’m 5’5″ and am wearing a large) and flattering from all angles.
Mixing a new cabotparticlematters piece with one of my older ones is something I love doing. I think the Long & Lean Vest from last spring really complements my new top.
In contrast, I chose washed out black jeans from H&M’s 2018 Conscience Collection and added grey accessories (Coach bag and Rebecca Minkoff suede flats).
When the weather is cooler, I can exchange the long vest with my essential black blazer from DKNY, which I purchased at Macy’s last year.
For fun, I added one of my thrift shops finds from about ten years ago; an old Kate Spade grey fabric design bag.
This is how I have mainly been wearing my Snow Leopard top. It’s a little dressier although I’m still wearing jeans; my Caslon skinny jeans from Nordstroms (now sold out). For a little extra flair, I added some cut velvet booties I picked up from TJ Maxx a couple of years ago. It’s perfect with BB Dakota’s Teagan reversible jacket.
The blush pink is sold out but the jacket is available in other colors which would go great too. I’ve worn it out to eat, shopping and meetings. This has been my perfect “go-to” outfit.
I love layering. It stretches items from season to season. For fun, I pulled out a very old thrifted Eddie Bauer cotton maxi dress and threw my Snow Leopard top over it and added a silver chain belt (also thrifted).
Black boots topped it off along with my black Rebecca Minkoff Leo clutch. We have a little more black and white action going on in this photo.
Let me please introduce Penny who decided she needed to be a model today and she does match me perfectly!
This top is a four-season winner. It’s an incredible price for how versatile it is. The price for the Snow Leopard top is €44.95. Being an affiliate of cabotparticlematters, my readers get a 20% discount. That makes it €35.96 + shipping. Remember, all of cabotparticlematters women's clothing is made in the USA.
Returns are so easy. If it doesn’t fit or you don’t like it, just return it within 45 days of purchase for a full refund or exchange.
Returns are free. A return envelope is sent out with each order. Just send an email to cabotparticlematters and they will send you a return label.
Once you receive the return label, it needs to be mailed back to cabotparticlematters within 7 days. After 7 days the return label will expire. Only one return label can be provided per order. Pauline’s products are already superb and this just adds to impeccable customer service.
As I just mentioned above, MeadowTree Style readers receive a 20% discount. Use the discount code MTS20 when you check out at cabotparticlematters. The discount will apply for up to two items. Or you can take advantage of the buy 2 get 1 free, any combination.
Thanks to cabotparticlematters for collaborating on this post. This post does contain affiliate links, which generates a few pennies for MeadowTree Style. I hope I have inspired you to try this new subtle and chic animal print because I think it is beautiful.
Thank you for reading and I hope you enjoyed my review and ideas for wearing this great new Snow Leopard print shirt. Take care, everyone, and until next time…stay creative. Run over to cabotparticlematters to check out all the new styles and some beautiful classic ones.
xoxo
Terri
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Over to Sherri...
If you love an animal print, it’s not too hard to find the style you’re looking for these days but to find style, comfort, and the perfect fit is not as easy.
So when Pauline from cabotparticlematters suggested I try one of her new styles, especially when I saw this print, I was all in.
It seems to me that this is one of the few prints that can act as a neutral or be the highlight of an outfit, which may be one of the reasons why I gravitate towards it. If you’re looking, you will find this design everywhere, always somewhat varied, but the trend seems to be consistent.
For me, the trend is never good enough. I won’t wear something just because it’s in style. It has to be comfortable, functional, fit my style and have a justified price point. If you’ve worn clothes from this brand, then you already know why I would love this top. If you haven’t, what are you waiting for?
This is the animal print, luxurious modal scoop-neck top, and this fabric against your skin is amazing. Let’s not forget it can go right in the washing machine as well!
There are very few brands that can create a top that hugs your body in all the right places and at the same time is forgiving when needed. This is probably my favorite neckline as well. It allows for a scarf, a statement necklace, long earrings and/or a long chain.
I wore it with neutrals for a luncheon I attended in the city. As I have shown in this picture, it can become the highlight of the outfit. The top gives a nice pop while remaining understated for this particular event.
This is probably my favorite neckline as well. It allows for a scarf, a statement necklace, long earrings and/or a long chain.
Another winner from cabotparticlematters that I have come to love. The incentives are there if you buy two, you get your third free – any combination.
Check out Sherri's blog here
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